I tell clients all the time that I understand that you never know what to expect when you come into the studio for portrait photography. It is much like going to the dentist, “If you take reasonable care of yourself, it’s painless.” Some clients have walked through the door and said, oh this is a legit studio. They were even uncertain what they were literally walking into. I understand if you have gone to a photography studio before, every photographer sets up their own individual process. It can be even scarier when you’ve never been to a photographer before. I also know from my own experience as a photographer that I don’t know what to expect either from client to client.
I have had people come in who are terrified of the camera. They are uncomfortable in every aspect. For this reason I build in extra time in each session for us to build rapport. If we are comfortable with each other, it will reflect in the photos. I admit there is an art to being the clown behind the camera to take people’s headshots and portraits. It isn’t as easy to get people to smile as when I was in elementary school and the photographer said, “Oh I didn’t realize the Incredible Hulk had such white teeth!” Photographing adults who won’t fall for that nonsense involves tapping into their feelings with their subtle cues. Even when I’m capturing wedding photography, I clean up dishes, run errands, tease the bridal party, or talk brides down from minor tragedies, I do it to be helpful as a good person, but also, the more relaxed and comfortable I can get the bride and groom, or anyone I’m photographing, the better the photos will be.
Imagine going to a movie with a complete stranger, or going with a good friend. You’re going to have a better experience with that good friend, even if the movie is a catastrophe. I strive to be that good friend whether it be headshot photography, portrait photography, event photography, boudoir photography, wedding photography, senior portraits, and even concert photography. Yes even concert photography. They’re up on stage hoping to see the crowd loving the show. There are subtle things (And I mean subtle things) you can do to stand out in the pit and let the artist know you’re a fan and are enjoying the performance. You’re not allowed to talk to them, or motion to them, but there are still ways of drawing their attention. If they’re paying attention, they will reciprocate and give you once-in-a-lifetime shot. You’ve seen this in concert photographs where the guitarists give the camera the finger.
The Joy Formidable, Mr Thomas on drums Sept 17, 2022
And in some cases, like in the case of Mike here, you naturally get along like good friends. It seems to be happening more and more often as I continue to grow as a photographer. I had no idea how much of a people person I would have to be to become the best portrait photographer I can be. Even commercial photography and real estate photography can be affected by having a pleasing disposition.
During our session, Mike commented about how genuine I seemed and it reassured him that he had made the right decision for his portrait photography (And based on our conversations before he came in, he had done his research). Jokingly, I responded with, “I’m glad you noticed, because I’ve been working real hard at seeming genuine”.
Thanks for coming in, Mike. I hope you enjoy the photos as much as I enjoyed the portrait session.
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